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How to Read a Lot to Learn a Lot

“Readers are leaders.” – Jim Kwik

My Library

I read a lot because I love to learn. As a writer, reading is essential. It’s one of the places I get tons of ideas from, as well as one way to hone the craft. And I only started writing because I already read a lot.

For me, since adulthood at least, reading has been one of the best ways to learn.

The year after graduating from high school I took a semester at Community College but left after that. Why? Because I knew I could learn better myself, with a learning program tailored specifically to what I was going to do in the world. This has always been supplemented by live events such as seminars and conferences, audio and video programs too, but reading has been the mainstay.

It takes time to write a book. A lot of time. It’s a crystallization of thoughts that have been thought over many times, and hopefully put into practice (as oppose to just being theory). Thus, to learn from a book is to take a shortcut in that learning process.

But learning is only a part of it. I enjoy reading too. It’s not just about learning but is a pleasurable activity itself.

I wrote a bit about how too read a lot of books in a year in this earlier post, but figured it was worth diving into more detail into.

I thought about writing a book on the subject! But I’ll settle for this long article for now. Part of my reason for doing this, besides sharing, is that it had me reflecting more on what works well and what could be done even better.

Invest Time in Learning to Speed Read

If you want to read a lot you can’t be a slow reader. It is worth spending some time to learn how to read faster. There are countless books on the subject of speed reading, so make that one of the first you read. If I remember correctly, Breakthrough Rapid Reading was what I went through in high school.

And realize that it’s not just about reading a book on speed reading. Speed reading is a skill. As such it needs to be practiced.

This is done by using a book and forcing yourself to read faster than you are comfortable doing. Practice this and your time goes up. Simple as that.

Also, the main thing that stops people from reading faster is sub-vocalization. This is where you think the words to yourself as if speaking them. But you can see and understand the words on a page faster than you’ll ever be able to speak. Thus, this habit most people have needs to be broken. And pretty much any speed reading book or course will cover doing that.

Skimming

Speed reading can still involve you looking over every word. Even if you’re fast, this will still take some time with most books. The fact is that not all words, sections, chapters of books are worth devoting time too. (The fact is that many books aren’t worth it either so proper selection in the first place is essential.)

Rule the Book, Don’t Let the Book Rule You

I include skimming here as this is also something I need to get better at. Especially in doing these lists for the past two years I was trapping myself into finishing books, and reading all of them, that I might not otherwise have done.

It is important to realize that the book is there to serve you. While the author may have high hopes that you’ll read every line, including the acknowledgements and appendixes, and re-read the book ten times, very few books deserve this level of attention. Especially when it comes to learning, you are here to get something out of the book. For great books this may involve slowing down and taking your time, even re-reading them several times. For many other books, skimming though it quickly to get one nugget in a half hour time span may be all it’s worth. 

Another way you can think of this is that if you get stuck an stop reading because you’re reading a “bad” book, that stops you from reading period, you’re stuck in not reading other things that would serve you much better. Having fallen into this completionist trap, as in “I started the book, I have to finish it,” before I feel it is important to recognize these other ways of looking at things.

One of my reading aims in 2019 is to do far more skimming. So far, so good.

Set a Goal

If you want to read more, than set a goal to do exactly that. Maybe it’s a certain number of books over the year. Maybe it’s a book a week. Maybe it is something else.

Goal setting works if you do it right, so make the intention, make the plan and then get after it.

Understand Why?

Beyond just the goal, why do you want to read more. Is it simply to be more-well read? Or do you have specific outcomes you’d like?

I primarily read to learn. It’s how I get better at life. If there’s an area I want insight or help in from sex to thinking, nutrition to team building, money to foraging there are books on it. There are people that have spent decades or lifetimes in a field and distilled that down into a few hundred pages and made it available for $20.

In this way I see it as insane NOT to read a lot of books. It has worked out quite well for me so I plan to continue to do it.

Prioritize Reading

If you want to read more than you have been, then reading needs to move up in your list of values or priorities. I’m not saying that reading should become more important than working out or spending time with your family. But chances are it can be made more important than watching TV, spending time on social media or the internet.

A lot of people do read each day. But it’s a choice if that reading is just tweets and Facebook posts for the latest brain fart of the day, or something that has been put into book form.

Again just because it’s a book doesn’t make it worth reading, but chances are better that it’s higher quality than most things on social media or the internet.

The hurdles of writing and book and getting it published are smaller these days than in years past but there are still some hurdles. To put it another way what are you spending your time on?

  • Tweets vs. Books
  • Brain Farts vs. Knowledge and Wisdom

Make Reading a Habit

A goal is good. Prioritizing is good to. And ultimately, these need to be transformed into a habit. If you want to read a lot then it needs to become a daily habit.

Here is how I read. I find reading to be a relaxing and unwinding activity for me. It’s more passive than the work I’ve done that day. As an introvert, reading is recharging me-time. For these reasons, I read when I can in the afternoons and evenings after my work is done.

This is interspersed with other activities like spending time with my wife, daughter, doing social things, eating food, even some watching TV.

Very often if I have nothing else to do, I will go straight to a book. And specifically, some other points to come up next fit into more on how I structure my reading.

7 Books at a Time +/- 2

I don’t read one book at a time. Sometimes, if I get completely engrossed in a book (especially great fiction), I will read that all the way, then return to my normal routine, but that doesn’t happen to often.

Instead, I have somewhere between seven to nine books open at a time. Mostly six to eight. Why? First of all I am interested in a bunch of topics. If I only read one thing at a time I wouldn’t be learning new things in all these different areas.

Also if some of these books are more boring than others I get stick to the more exciting ones that I want to dive into each day. Often then I’ll get to the less boring ones once I have the momentum going as related to the next point.

I have to give credit to Dr. John La Tourrette, one of my mentors that I picked up this tip from. Once I started reading this many books actively at one time, it really did transform my reading.

One Book Per Subject Matter

In my mix of five to nine books I tend to have one business book in the rotation at each time. Right now, as I’m diving deep on masculinity I’m re-reading previous books on the subject as well as some new. One masculinity book is in the mix at any time. One pre-Gutenberg (see below) is in the mix at any time. One (or more) fiction books too.

The subject matters do change over time, but I find this tends to be helpful in keeping a mix of different materials.

One Chapter Per Book Per Day

This goes back to my habit. My ideal habit anyway, because I feel like I seldom hit this, but I tend to hit some part of it each day. For each of my open books I try to read one chapter per day. (If the chapters are too long, I may break it up into sections. If chapters are too short I may read multiple. But for the most part one chapter seems to work.) Read that chapter, whether skimming or full-on detailed reading, then close up the book and move onto the next one.

Why do this? We tend to remember the first and last things better than the middle. I’m creating lots of these first and lasts, by switching books and topics, rather than just reading through one book alone. It helps with recall.

It also can help with boredom. Again, if a book isn’t worth reading please don’t read it. But some books are boring and still worth reading. I can get through a chapter or a section at a time easily. Trying to plow through chapter after chapter, not as much.

Fiction vs. Non-Fiction

Right now about 85-90% of the books I read are non-fiction. I did title this book about reading a lot to learn a lot, after all. But I am reading more fiction and over time, more and more of it. I do learn from fiction too. I learn how to tell a story better. I learn how to put words together in more magical ways.

That’s why I always have at least one fiction book in rotation, and lately its been two. (I am about halfway through the huge Dostoevsky’s The Brothers Karamazov right now, finally got to the murder promised in the first pages…400 pages in!)

Also there are times when I need to shut my learning mind off. It’s not often but it happens. So fiction is great when I need more of that relaxation and recharge that reading brings.

Parenting Books, Why Wouldn’t I?

As I was getting ready for my daughter being born I posted on Facebook, asking people what their favorite parenting books were. There was a great response and I’ve only begun to scratch the surface of the list that was created. (Thanks to those that responded, those books have been great so far!)

And, not to knock them, but a few people said I don’t need to read books about being a parent, it’ll come naturally.

I get the sentiment, but why wouldn’t I study this subject? I read books on strength training to become strong. I read books on health and nutrition to become healthy. I read books on business to build my businesses. I read books on NLP to master the subject matter. And on and on I could go. So why the hell wouldn’t I read books about something that is arguably more important than all those things, i.e. raising a human being?

I don’t always have one of these books in my mix but do most of the time. Just finished the 400 page Becoming the Parent You Want to Be which was quite illuminating as it describes things from the baby/child’s point of view as they’re developing.

Pre-Gutenberg Books

This is a tip I picked up from Perry Marshall. As I mentioned earlier there aren’t many hurdles to creating a book these days. So the quality of books overall has gone down because of that. But there use to be far more hurdles.

Specifically, before the printing press was invented by Gutenberg, which allowed for the mass printing of books, they had to be copied by hand. Think about that for a second and how much time it would take.

Therefore, because of the efforts involved, the books that come to us from before the printing press was invented tend to be of higher quality. There tends to be more wisdom present, instead of mere knowledge. That’s why I’m always reading something ancient.

And I am reading older stuff that isn’t quite that old. Books from a hundred years ago tend to be quite good as well.

Aim for One Book Per Week

If you read a book per week you would read 52 books in a year, which is not bad at all. That would put you in the top 1% compared to others, and very likely a much smaller fraction of a percent. (Sadly, most people don’t even read a single book per year.)

So it’s a good process goal to aim for. I often try to finish at least one book per week, though on average the past couple years I’ve done more than that. This brings me to the next point.

Extra Reading Time on Weekends

Because I see reading as a leisure activity, I will often do more of it on my weekends. Very often I’ll try to finish a book on a Sunday, among other things I might do that day.

I do like to finish things so this will often be several chapters in a book, whatever I am close to finishing, that I’ll do a final push on over the weekend.

Underline and Take Notes

I used to feel that I couldn’t damage the perfection of the book. That I needed to keep it in pristine order. But I realized my desire to learn was greater than this feeling.

I would say I at least double what I get out of a book by underlining the important points as I go along. I’ll also take notes in the margins, ideas triggered by the reading.

Plus this makes it easier to skim and refer to later, which I’ve found especially useful for writing when I want to use lots of other great books as references, such as in my new book Powered By Nature.

Recognize Your Primary Representation Channel – VADK

Are you a visual person? An auditory person? Or a kinesthetic person? While we are all all of these, one channel tends to be better as relates to learning. A visual person will learn best with a video or a demonstration. An auditory person may prefer audiobooks. A kinesthetic person will learn best hands-on.

There is also the digital representation system, which is basically words and symbols. If you’re strongly digital, like I am, then reading will suit you just fine.

The reason I read a lot is because I love to learn AND it suits my learning style. Plus I find it to be a relaxing and recharging activity. While I think pretty much everyone would benefit from reading more, I recognize that I am particularly suited to it and others will not necessarily be.

The question to ask is how much of this is innate vs. trained? My guess is that it’s some of both, which means that if you want to read a lot, you can train yourself to do it better and get more out of it.

Irlen Syndrome

Do you often get to the bottom of a page and feel like you don’t know what you just read? Or get to the end of a chapter and not be able to recite anything? Does reading make you tired, hurt your eyes, or give you brain fog?

Here is a possible stumbling block for some. I bring it up because it impacts my wife greatly. I first heard about Irlen Syndrome on Dave Asprey’s podcast. I though, “Hey that sounds like my wife.” So we consulted with a coach and sure enough, she has it. What this means is that normal words on a page negatively impact her. But by using a special colored filter she can read just fine. Find out more at Irlen.com.

I’m fortunate to not have this problem, but I mention it because it is not well known but should be more so.

Travel

The routine and habit I listed above is great for when I’m at home. But what about when I travel which I do from time to time? I tend to travel with one to two books on me (depending on length of travel and how much I will have time to read). If my flight is in the morning I tend to write on the plane. If my flight is in the afternoon, evening or overnight (besides sleeping) I will read. (I only tend to write well in the mornings.)

Because I’m not going to bring 7 +/- 2 books with me, I don’t stick to my normal routine. Instead I pick a book I feel like I’m fine with going straight through on. I tend to travel with fiction too, because many of my travels like for business tend to drain me, and I want some very passive reading.

E-Readers

I resisted using these for a long time as I like real books. Then after years I finally gave a Kindle a try. I used it a bit…but now it’s been in my draw for years without use.

If you like them all the power to you. But I choose real books.

Conclusion

I threw a whole lot at you here, with a minimum of organization. Take what works for you and put it into practice.

Have any questions? Use the comments below and I’ll be happy to answer them.

Any tips or methods that work well for you in reading? Please share them below.

I Read 73 Books in 2018

Last year I read 73 books in full.

The previous year I read 72 and did numerous posts detailing that, spread over five parts. You can find them here:

This year, I don’t plan to go into as much detail, but I figured it was worth visiting the same concept in one large post.

To start with, here is the complete list of books I read in 2018.

The List of 73 Books

  1. The Star Principle by Richard Koch
  2. Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carrol
  3. The Vaccine Guide by Randall Neustaedter
  4. The Ra Principle (The Law of One Book One) by Ra
  5. Birth Chemistry Workbook
  6. 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson
  7. The Essential Gnostic Gospels
  8. Anything is Possible! by Joe Vitale
  9. Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
  10. Creative Imagination by Christopher Hills
  11. Excelsior! The Amazing Life of Stan Lee by Stan Lee and George Mair
  12. The Healing Wisdom of Africa by Malidoma Patrice Some
  13. Secrets of the Lost Mode of Prayer by Gregg Braden
  14. Bottleneck Breakthrough by Joshua Long
  15. Cuffed, Tied and Satisfied by Jaiya
  16. How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big by Scott Adams
  17. The 80/20 Manager by Richard Koch
  18. Alice Through the Looking Glass by Lewis Carrol
  19. Warburton’s Winning System by Greg Warburton
  20. 16X by Richard Koch
  21. Real Magic by Dean Radin
  22. Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottmann
  23. Persuader by Lee Child
  24. Breakthrough Advertising by Eugene Schwartz
  25. The Natural Laws of Business by Richard Koch
  26. Renegade Beauty by Nadine Artemis
  27. The Terror by Dan Simmons
  28. Killing Floor by Lee Child
  29. 60 Minute CFO by David A. Duryee
  30. The Gulag Archipelago [Abridged] by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn
  31. Remote Viewing Secrets by Joseph McMoneagle
  32. Carrion Comfort by Dan Simmons
  33. Never Lose a Customer Again by Joey Coleman
  34. Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
  35. Taoist Sexual Meditation by Bruce Francis
  36. Selected Works of Cicero
  37. Measure What Works by John Doerr
  38. The Norse Myths by Kevin Crossley-Holland
  39. Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters by Meg Meeker
  40. The Everything Store by Brad Stone
  41. Creative Conflict by Christopher Hills
  42. A Brief Tour of Higher Consciousness by Itzhak Bentov
  43. Servant of the Bones by Anne Rice
  44. The Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan
  45. Superconnect by Richard Koch and Greg Lockwood
  46. The Botany of Desire by Michael Pollan
  47. Leonardo’s Notebooks edited by H. Anna Suh
  48. The Outsider by Stephen King
  49. Synchronicity by Allan Combs and Mark Holland
  50. Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth by R. Buckminster Fuller
  51. Your First CFO by Pam Prior
  52. Finite and Infinite Games by James P. Carse
  53. On Writing by Stephen King
  54. Dream Yoga and the Practice of Natural Light by Chogyal Namkhai Norbu
  55. Beyond Good and Evil by Friedrich Nietzsche
  56. The Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell
  57. Clock Work by Mike Michalowicz
  58. How to Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan
  59. Reinventing Medicine by Larry Dossey
  60. The Dispossessed by Ursula K. Le Guin
  61. Golden Dawn Ritual Tarot by Chic Cicero & Sandra Tabatha Cicero
  62. Superhuman You by Iron Tamer Dave Whitley
  63. The San Lorenzo Valley by Lisa Robinson
  64. Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind by Al Ries and Jack Trout
  65. Iron John by Robert Bly
  66. Modern Magick by Donald Michael Kraig
  67. Neuromancer by William Gibson
  68. Five Wishes by Gay Hendricks
  69. Giftology by John Ruhlin
  70. Synchronicity: The Art of Coincidence, Choice and Unlocking You Mind by Dr. Kirby Surprise
  71. Foundation by Isaac Asimov
  72. When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing by Daniel Pink
  73. The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

Plans from Start of 2018

It’s interesting to reflect on my predictions and plans around reading I made at the start of 2018.

  1. More fiction. Check! While I only did 5 out of 72 in 2017, this year I read 11 out of 73. (And that’s not counting the Norse myths either.) More than doubled my fiction ratio. And I’m definitely enjoying it. Of all I read I always have at least one fiction book in progress, and lately more than one.
  2. More diverse reading covering a wider-range of topics. Check! I wouldn’t even hope to categorize these books like I did last year. There’s still many of the familiar categories but some completely new areas of exploration. And that includes some very eclectic titles in there.
  3. More biographies. Not really. There’s a few in there but about as much as previously. It did not turn out to be a major theme this year.
  4. More re-reading. Not really, there was only a few in there.
  5. More on strength and fitness. Check! Not included in the list because I didn’t finish it was The Super Athletes by David Willoughby. I read 400 pages or so of this monstrous tome but didn’t finish it. Still, this book gave me some big ideas and affected my training for the better. More on that in a bit.
  6. Books on parenting. Check! I love to learn so why wouldn’t I spend some time doing so in this extremely important area?

On the note of having a baby, my time was impacted but I was able to read more than last year. In fact, I kind of made that my goal to beat out what I did previously. You can see I’m very goal oriented by hitting 73 with last year was 72. Helps to have a plan and a goal!

Not bad, hit four of the six things very well, without really thinking about them since writing them down last year.

Next, I’ll highlight a few books that top the bunch in a variety of ways.

Most Impactful Books in 2018

I Ching by Hilary Barrett

This isn’t mentioned on the list as it’s not a book you “read.” Instead I’ve been using it almost daily by consulting the oracle. (I started with the older version, the translation by Wilheim and Baynes, with Jung’s interesting foreword, but found this version more user friendly.) I’m finding this is a very useful practice that helps me answer big questions. And in that way it’s related to the next book.

The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron

Another habit that has been added to my morning routine is the ‘Morning Pages’ as described in this book. Can’t say I’ve done most of the work from this book, but this one thing has been huge for me. I start off my morning pages with some of the results from the I Ching reading and then go from there.

Super Athletes by David Willoughby

Again, not a book I finished but one that has impacted my training. While it was a dream that got me started doing bent presses and getups again, I think it was reading this that caused the dream! I’ve also been practicing the chin hang which I had never even seen previously as a result of this book. Several other ideas for future training too.

Never Lose a Customer Again by Joey Coleman

Joey is a fellow Maverick1000 member, but that’s not why it’s on this list. This was my favorite, most impactful business book of the year. After reading this I was revamping our entire prospect and customer campaigns this year as well as several other recent changes in Lost Empire Herbs. More changes to come that have still been in the planning and development stages.

Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottmann

Although most of this book would come into play beyond the age of one, so wasn’t immediately applicable in that regard, I realized I needed to start practicing. This way I would be able to act in an emotionally intelligent way when the time comes. I have largely been practicing with my wife, but also kids besides my daughter when I’m around them.

Most Eye Opening Books

The Gulag Archipelago [Abridged] by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

Turned onto this by listening to Jordan Peterson, having never heard of it before. I picked up the Abridged version as I felt that was plenty long enough. Wow! The descriptions of what went on in the Soviet gulags were incredible. It further left me reflecting on why we don’t think of Stalin as badly as we do of Hitler…when after all he was responsible for far more death. And also left me a bit worried that I don’t think society has learned it’s history lessons.

The Omnivore’s Dilemma by Michael Pollan

I don’t think he would think of it as a health book, but I do. This is the best thing I’ve seen that clearly shows where food comes from. That will give you a feel for industrial food, organic food, beyond organic food, foraged and hunted food. I feel like the reason we have 10,000 different diets is our fractured relationship to food. We moderns don’t know where it comes from. This book shows you clearly the different types of food out there.

Real Magic by Dean Radin

Parapsychology researcher Dean Radin comes to the conclusion the psi research, paranormal research, and all the other names it’s been called in the past hundred years or so, is simply different terminology for what people before called magic. I like this frame of reference and you can see that this sparked some new interest in the direction of some of the books I read.

Iron John: A Book About Men by Robert Bly

The subject of masculinity is a subject I plan to explore much more in depth in 2019 (already have started). This includes writing about it. While I’ve read some other great books on the topic, this one is really, really good. It takes the myth of Iron John (one I had not even come across before) and shows how it maps to the masculine psyche.

Best Fiction

The Terror by Dan Simmons

Hard to pick but I have to go with The Terror. Dan Simmons is an amazing writer. I started with his sci-fi, the Hyperion series which is also amazing. What I am amazed with is Dan is able to write across many different fields. Here, historical fiction with a twist. While I thought the AMC series on TV was decent, it just couldn’t do justice to the coldness that the book made me feel, the wussiness I felt compared to these sailors and so much more.

Most Over My Head

Beyond Good and Evil by Friedrich Nietzsche

Not something that can be read quickly, which is how I read most of it. Nietzsche tends to use long sentences, like 30 to 50 words long, so grasping what he is actually saying is tough to do. I’m guessing I may revisit this in a couple decades and get more out of it.

Reading Plans for 2019

I realized with doing this list, keeping track of books in this way, it was “forcing” me to finish books I wouldn’t otherwise have finished. Not so great. To read a book cover to cover is great…if the book is worth reading cover to cover. Not all of them are.

I will be “speed reading” a number of books were I skim and dip in as things look interesting. This may end up being most of a book, or even just sections. And I will be keeping this as a list of books speed read as such separate from the list of books fully read to see what happens.

This plan is already underway as we’re a month into 2019. Doing so I figure my list will be even bigger next year.

Questions about any of these books? How I read so much? Use the comments section below.